Tim - It looks like she might be at least considering the possibility of making a little progress before her next appt.
I was just on Dr. Phil's site looking for the link to where you can take that relationship test online, and I see they are looking for show guests who are "married but not sexually confident" - here is the link in case anybody wants to go on national TV so we can see what you REALLY look like! Married But Not Sexually Confident? Dr. Phil wants YOU!
Oh, and here is the link to the relationship test. I took it a few weeks ago and got a 32, so my marriage is in the danger zone, too - though I didn't really need a test to tell me that! Relationship Health Profile Test