Pretty much keeping up the nc for past month, the few times we've spoken have been in regards to our S15- he has been in some trouble at school, during one of those conversations she wanted to talk about S19 and how he still won't speak to her, she went on to say that " I can't give him what he wants" (mum and dad back together) only other point of conversation was on Father's Day 2 weeks ago in which she text that she hopes I have a nice day, the only response I could muster up was a simple "thank you"
That can't give him what he wants comment has made me feel a little anxious this past week, way back I had said to my wife that I will be totally letting go and moving on if she were to settle finances/property- right or wrong, idk, anyway, she started the preceding by engaging a L to which I had 14 days to respond to her demands, I waited 13 days in the hope that she would rethink things, my L then responds to her demnds, that was months ago, my L recently contacted me to ask if I knew what was happening as he hadn't heard from her L, all I could say was that she might be slowing down due to what I had previously said about letting go. So I have been using the time to gal, work on myself and give her space she may need. However, and this could be a case of overthinking, I'm wondering if she is buying time, she is locked into a rental lease so property settlement is not urgent, the Sydney property market ( in my area at least) has had 15-25% annual growth for years, I just don't know if she is game playing by not settling. What complicates this issue is that my brother has offered to pay my wife out, his objective was that the boys and I are not uprooted in an already tough situation, so it's really not my money to give away. whilst I'm happy to be patient in this, I'm afraid her motives are not good, unfortunately the way she's been I wouldn't put it past her.
So I've been thinking to have a "what's going on" conversation and even simply telling her it's time to move on.
Been a little depressed lately and don't know how clearly I'm thinking
