I still go out with my waw and the kids and we have a great time together as a family and that is puzzling me a bit. Maybe she knows that we are better together but is waiting out for something..either way,
So, if she's holding out for something better (prince charming), are you content to stand by and wait?
She hasn't lost you, Excile. She D you, and still has not lost you. She throws a few crumbs and you think it means hope of getting back together. In the meantime, she pretty much has things going for her. She has no doubt that you are "waiting", willing, and able to jump on the M train again.
Maybe she needs to see how a "real" divorce family lives. Know what I mean?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
