Since at least 4 years back:
Laundry
Dishes
Vacuuming
Putting kids to bed
Taking kids to school/preschool
Picking kids up from preschool/school
Buying groceries

Now:
Cooking
Cleaning bathroom
Watering her plants as needed (asked to before, finally getting the hang of it, may be overwatering)
Painting walls

It's going to be interesting to hear how she handles having the kids in her friends "nice apartment with crystal and glass things everywhere"
I can see why she didn't want to bring our youngest there.
At least her friend and I agree that either both kids go there or neither does.
I'm just not convinced that she, her friend and the kids can handle a full week over there.

There's also an OM of sorts now. By the descriptions of his actions it feels like he wants to be a supportive friend and nothing more.