WW confused about the future.

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My stbx contacted me to tell me that her lawyer is going to contact me to let me know when the divorce is to be finalized.

She then said that we need a clean slate and the divorce is necessary right now as our vows no longer meant anything. She continued that she can see that I have tried very hard to improve myself and that we will always be tied through the children and who knows where our relationship will go in the future. She says that she has forgiven me for my porn use and issues in the past.

She basically has everything worked out. She wants to end our marriage so we can start over in some way. I've never heard of anything like it before. I'm not sure if I should remain hopefull of a reconciliation or weather I should run for the hills! It seems she is still trying to be in control.

I know I should be happy that there may be hope for us in the future but a divorce is a very painful process and I don't know how I should feel about it all.

What should I be thinking/ doing? This is all so confusing...