There's also an OM of sorts now. By the descriptions of his actions it feels like he wants to be a supportive friend and nothing more.
Um yeah, he'll be supportive. He's probably been around longer than you think.
I agree here. He's been around longer than you think and she's most likely been using him as a sounding board for all her "issues" with the marriage. Be careful, supportive for her is not necessarily in the marriage's best interest.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3