Confused on What to Do

[Eagle11]

Also, she told me she doesn't need to go to therapy anymore because she can handle it on her own, but I am the one who needs to go to therapy. I told her I agree that I need to go to therapy but she really needs to think about giving up therapy. She has some serious issues that need to be dealt with and she knows that, but she is just going to give up.

She told me she might have to work this Saturday, she is going out of town next week for 3 days, the following week for 3 days and she might have to go out of town that weekend as well. Then she tells me she thinks she needs 4 or 5 days to unwind with her mom or sister so she can relax and get away from all this stress. She said she needs to really think about our relationship. Of course in my head I'm thinking she isn't going away with her mom or sister but with the OM. That could be me just overthinking things but I just don't know if I believe her. One thing for sure though is that if she has to be away all this time then I won't have much time for me. I will be watching the kids.