Learning, growing and believing....

[mleigh4]

Hi HW. Yes, your H does love the dance! I threw away my card too

Well, we are trying to coordinate selling the RV. The conversation, as usual, got all twisted around when I offered to H to buy me out for only what I put in so he could keep it, and I would relinquish my community property rights, since it really was a gift from his dad. He got all riled up, misunderstood what I was saying, lashed out on my text messages, so I finally just called him. Told him flat out to calm down and get a grip. That I was being very nice with the offer, as I don't need to, but am out of respect for his dad's intent.

He calmed down, but I thought in my mind, splitting up assets is going to be an absolute nightmare when dealing with this ding dong. Anyway, we decided to sell and split the funds, definitely in my benefit. I then can put the money towards a new truck for S and I since my Pathfinder just passed 140k miles. H then got excited to help me shop for one.

The flip, from enemy to BFF is so exhausting with him.

The good thing was, I didn't get that twinge of fear in me, when talking about things that will come up "at the table". It seemed H was the one that reacted from it this time. Me.....well, the only feeling I got was the urge to just be done and over with this.

Hope you are all having a great day!