I haven't personally come across it, but I'm sure it happens.

Your wh does sound in a fragile place, but only he can admit that he needs help. Just stay a steady lighthouse, show calm. Be the opposite of him. And when/if he's ready to reach out to you he will. But don't let him drag you into his hole. My wh is full of depressive thoughts and how the world would be better without him. I just listen and validate.

Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16