Tim, Sorry to pile on here, but here's an approach to help the W at the C. I know that my first sessions were mainly about getting my nervousness down and finding a way for me to talk about feelings. I'm more Vulcan on that, (sorry to use a Trek term, but it's perfect for this). The C gave me a list of feeling words and categories to help me find a word that connected with a feeling. That helped me immensely. Now I know that most females don't have that problem, but maybe you can help with a "issue" sheet or a list of questions that the W and C can discuss. I also helped when my spouse went in for solo sessions by suggesting some things for the C to bring up with her. I know you don't have contact with the C, but it is at least a start.
Scott -Who is now more like Data after the emotion chip was installed.
"Satisfaction is not guaranteed." Rule #19 Ferengi "Rules of Acquistition"
