One thing I've heard and read is that people will "affair down" continuing to go down-market on each subsequent one.
A good mood could also be an indication that she's getting her happiness elsewhere. I know that my W would be in a great mood with me after secretly spending time with OM.
Of course I could be completely wrong about all of this too.
AndrewP,
I don't know much about the original OM, other than his career and I've seen a couple of pics. If this 2nd OM is true then I know she has "affaired down" because everybody I've heard talk about this guy can't stand him. Even my W couldn't stand him not that long ago. I've heard her complain to others about this guy. That is why this is so confusing.
I know you could be right about the good mood thing, but I really hope your wrong. It has been strange the last week though. She comes home from work and you would think there is nothing wrong in our M. She acts happy to see me. She wants to talk to me. She is happy to see the kids and asks about their day. She almost acts like her old self, but then she goes to work and proceeds to spend most her day texting 2 other guys about who knows what. The thing I wonder about is that now she knows I know and I didn't get upset about it, then she may think in her mind that I think it is ok.
M39, W36 T12, M10 S6,S2 Discovered EA 8/8 that started 7/31
