Originally Posted By: ROE
Thanks guys, I really have no clue which boundaries are appropriate. W is goading me into filing. I feel that I can't enforce boundaries or I'm just straight scared to know what to do. I really think that D is really the only option I have


ROE-- One way to figure out boundaries might be to answer these questions:

- What specific things has she done that are clearly harmful to your kids?

- What specific things has she done that openly and clearly communicates disrespect and malice to you as a human being?

After you have the answers, you could then think about what are consequences you're willing to act on, and stand by.

I hope you don't feel like you're force into anything by your W, even filing for a divorce. If you arrive at that, I hope it's something you feel you've decided is best for you and your kids.

At least that's what I tell myself about my own situation....


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final