Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 4)

[JRuss]

Yeah, I'm trying to keep calm and not go off the minute I get on the phone with him. I've actually talked to him a lot about things as my marriage has slowly imploded, though, so for him not to mention in any of those many conversations that he's been in repeated contact with my wife about the very same topic is upsetting. He has his own very strained marriage. The mind reels with possibilities, so many of them horrible.

The more I think on it, the less possibility I see of their being a completely benign explanation or story.