Mia my EH has been coming around much more since the divorce. He has been giving me extra money and tries to take us all out to dinner. He had this pressure he had to be divorced...had to ..all of us be damned!! He is very confused still. He thinks it is normal that he doesn't call the boys.. it is all just strange...he calls me but not the boys... i try not to understand it anymore. I just go with it.