I'm tickled to read that the vacation was great and you both had a good time except for those couple of "kinks" along the way. So where do you think you and your wife will head next?
FY, you learned the lessons and have been patient and compassionate. You've done the hard, necessary work and your wife is attempting to catch up. Continue to be patient because it's going to be well worth it when she gets to the finish line.
You are such an inspiration and the posters need to read your threads to see that there are times when patience, time, space, compassion, listening skills and also focusing on yourself do pay off.
I'm so proud of you!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.