None of these things ever crossed his mind, and I think it's worth at least considering the potential pitfalls.
Like I said, I was married in my early 20s.
Im sure if someone told me the pitfalls, I wouldnt have been in a place to hear or understand them. Just like my ex and your ex told us of the problems they were having, but we werent in a place to understand or listen.
I completely agree with this. I was married at 24, divorced at 29, with a baby. My friends married young also. Some made it. I always tried to use my situation as a learning experience for them when hit the tough stuff in a M. I want them to look to what I went through so that maybe they have a more realistic idea of what M was like and what needs to be done to hold one up.
I basically teach from what went wrong in my life, and it could help others through the tough times.
Sometimes, seeing is believing.
Not saying everyone should go through a divorce. But theres no way to really understand the ramifications of divorce until you live through it.
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