None of these things ever crossed his mind, and I think it's worth at least considering the potential pitfalls.
Like I said, I was married in my early 20s.
Im sure if someone told me the pitfalls, I wouldnt have been in a place to hear or understand them. Just like my ex and your ex told us of the problems they were having, but we werent in a place to understand or listen.
Sometimes, seeing is believing.
Not saying everyone should go through a divorce. But theres no way to really understand the ramifications of divorce until you live through it.
