G' mornen Cherry. Lots of support and convo here at your pad.
I notice a lot of chat about the WH and what they do and think and will do and will think.......
I encourage that you read Blu' post again about the fixation on this.
I know it may seem like it is just venting and it does seem to feel good in the moment....
Healthy and productive Venting really is a short term action with returning to working at the task at hand... When it becomes conversation and ongoing writing of it, it becomes etched more in ones mind and thoughts and reality...... This is rumination, not healthy venting and it is emotionally unhealthy.
There is a saying I use with my team at work...
Talking about and complaining about things without a solution is "bitching" Discussing concerns about a thing and sharing possible solutions and taking action is the way of success.
Which is happening in here?
Can I challenge you to use today as a day to simply discuss what you are doing to heal..... To progress.... To be a great mum... To be the woman only a fool would leave... To enjoy this lovely God given day..... To feel at peace.
You are one strong and sassy woman and with the right focus, your spunk will launch you into success and better things than you can even imagine.
(((((Cherry)))))
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine