Thanks job,

Had a long chat with a good friend yesterday. She was saying that you get upset over solicitors letters but you have no idea the turmoil he is probably going through. He's clinging onto the kids as that is all he has left. Going on about divorce is another way of of him trying to maintain control. What is going to change with a d.....that's not going to make him happy either.

Tbh even my kids are saying divorce him lol.....that's very telling for me about what they think. They love their dad but all this is just creating distance. They don't even answer the phone to h every night now. Am sure that will be blamed on me.

But they are good kids