At first I was furious and shocked. It took me totally by surprise. I am glad her first call was to me and to get the boys away from the situation. So I know there is some sense in her head still.
When I met her she immediately came to me for a hug and I hugged back. She was crying and all I said was your safe here now. We transferred the boys stuff and she took my puppy for a walk to pee.
Before I left she was noticeably still shook up and I hugged her again. Told her to drive safe and take care of herself. The boys are safe with me now so she can focus on herself.
As far as I know she had a friend check that OM wasn't home as she wanted to go and get some things. And that is the last I heard so I am a little nervous.
I understand that she may get pulled back in, and I told her I hope for her and our boys sake she thinks everything through. She told me she felt scared and stupid to which I replied that I can see how she would feel that way, at the same time that I hope she knows whatever caused this to happen with OM isn't her fault, it's not acceptable from a man or a woman to abuse someone.
She said she done and should have know better. So regardless of where this goes I just hope for her and our boys sake it doesn't go back to OM.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
