Be very careful. She is unstable right now. She may go back to him. She may try to come back to you. She may find someone else.
My WW did all 3 in the same night.
It was September 5th, 2 years ago. The night she called me crying, while OM1 who had dumped her was passed out in our old bed, the morning before she attempted suicide. Not sure if you read my sitch, but it was a unique 24 hours.
So please be very, very careful. By all means make sure the mother of your children is ok, but don't go into rescue mode either. Trust me, you are only seeing what she wants to show you, and there is a lot more going on. Post often and take care today.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15