RDS- I don't know if you saw, but I threw up a post on my thread in "surviving the big D". My D is now totally finished after two years.
After I wrote it I thought of you. I am so glad I handled my D like I did, and I really feel it was almost magical how it worked out based on the way I approached it. Please check it out.
Take care.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
