Some food for thought from my happiness class...
"If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion." Dalai Lama

Yep, we do this when we DB (in our role as friendly neighbor). But I can honestly say through this that I haven't actively practiced compassion for h.... Moreso just indifference since he hasn't played a role in my life for so long. I don't know if/ how I can or should change it... But it's an opportunity to look even deeper at the sitch and make changes for myself for the future. While the above is a simple concept, it can really open the door to a new way of thinking if you examine it enough. just wanted to share!


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16