I get where your at mayb, I'm touchy and the xh well he sticks his nose in from on far. I'm not saying how but he's trying. Trust me.
Classic narc style behaivour and he expects the gg poker machine will pay off given enough time.
I too swing back and forth, bf talked about he had been around nearly 2 years and I freaked mentally. I had to say it in the moment and in some ways he gets it.
Sometime I think it's just relax and see where things go and hope for the best, mr fantastic he showed his true colour in the end. Most people do even if it takes a while.
He might decide over time the family things I Not for him and it may not be the huge movie show stopper ending. It might be nice easy and mutual.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26