Quote: She might feel like you guys are on the right track (when you feel that you aren't even ON the track yet) and that she doesn't need to bring this up in C.
BINGO!! My fear exactly.
Quote: (btw, your wife is scheming her ass off in regards to that seemingly innocent question, imo)
Yeah, I'd agree with that... again, that's why I'm expressing this uneasiness.
Quote: I would say "you know, I've been thinking about your question re: the C. But first let me ask you this--what do YOU want to talk to her about?"
Yup, that's my plan. Hope it works. I sure don't have any intentions of copping a 'tude about it... I'm just hoping she won't waste her time (and C's)... and half-expecting she will. Of course, that will initiate yet another round of effort to get the point across... (sorry, I'm living in the future... must... stop... that...)
