Yep, tis me, the H and dating. I do agree it is something you should be prepared for, to know how to react, what to say. You guys helped with that for sure. If (or when) it happens I will not freak out on him, I'll say what you guys constructed for me. And who knows where I'll be at in my own journey. I had a construct in my head- give space, we separate, each get IC, then look at MC, then see where we are. I still don't see where dating fits into that, I guess now? So date even before MC? The order of it is so backwards to me, it makes zero sense. Which goes back to the sudden bomb drop, oh, wait, you are saying things I have never heard that you were unhappy about for years? Uh oh, Altair is activated. Also, dating after a breakup stinks. Part of me wants him to suffer through a few bad ones/rejections.
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016