Exactly. That has been my expectation from the start.
Quote: This also includes not asking her about the C after it happens.
Ditto - again, my plan from the beginning. As well, my fear from the beginning was that she was doing this "for me", not "for her". If that's her attitude going in, she might as well save time and not do it. Nothing good will come of it. Maybe you're right.... I need to let her know that she is going to have to do this on her own, hard as it might be. Her willingness to work at it will speak volumes...
And you're right... not asking will be the hardest thing I've ever done...
