Addendum to my previous post. My wife has in the beginning of this summer gotten pills that have fixed her period somewhat (now down to 1 week & 1/2 to 2 weeks) which may also have increased her sexdrive somewhat.
And for the last 2 years I may have spent more time with the kids than her, mostly to gice her "peace and quiet"
It's not like I can't see a clear cause and effect going on as I look at what I wrote. I didn't initiate sex! There's a few orher things, like I didn't redo the walls in the dining room for 6 years (bothof us we very vocal about our current apartment being temporary... For 6 years!) and I didn't dress as nicely as when we for married
Actually that's wrong, at one time I did initiate this summer, but she claimed that she was the one to do so due to the inviting pose that she had. I am still a bit hung up about this.