RosaLinda:

You have few great examples. Sandi2's original post was about when a WAW.WW,MLC shows disrespect. For many of us it's about being treated worse than the Spouse would treat a stranger i.e. being rude or not replying to message, being late for pick up/drop off, not making payments when agreed to etc.

Some of us struggle with being tempted to mirror back the same behavior which is equally bad. Also, where is the line between being petty and crossing a boundary (e.g. is 5 mins late OK or 10 or 20)?

Anyone have any ideas?


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MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
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