H filed for divorce - is it too late?

[csabo]

Hi Surfer. Haha, it's alright.

He did give the divorce papers to the sheriff, just got the knock on the door. Sigh, great anniversary present. I didn't say anything about it being our anniversary, though. I remained calm.

He just got done telling me about how he couldn't talk to some cute girl at the gym, and that he came to the realization that he's a "loser" and that's why he was always okay with it when things weren't going well. He didn't specify, but I felt like he meant not going well between us.

It's hard not to get discouraged when things like this happen, it's like such a slap in the face.

He has moved to the guest bedroom, did so almost immediately back in July.

I wonder if I should also mention, I forgot in my first post, we've been together for 9 years today and married for 7 in November.