((Cherry)),I can't tell you how sad I feel for your sich especially how quickly your WH is filing for divorce. Just remember that no knew is expecting you to be strong all the time, you are only human so falling apart every now and again (and not all the time like me!) is allowed.

I really believe that your WH is a little like my WH in that thry set themselves on a path and stubbornness and pride stop them from admitting it might be the wrong decision and so the only way they can justify their actions is to vilify us and the marriage.

Surfer is so right we've got to let go of WH in the hope that our H will resurface and come back to us.

Take care of yourself and your little chicks. Xx


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')