Confused on What to Do

[Eagle11]

Eric,

Thanks for the advice. I know I'm not the only one going through this and after reading other threads on the board I know a lot have it worse than me. Somedays are better than others and today is not a good one mentally for me. I guess when I look at the whole sitch there is no end point and I have no idea where this will lead. Part of me feels if I told others that haven't gone through this they would say to just leave her. I have questioned myself why I would want to stay with someone who is doing this to our family. I guess that is the point I have to get to though. I have to get to the point that it will not effect me if she doesn't work things out with me. Somedays I think I can handle that and others are tough.