Maybell 40

[Surfer]

When I say loved, I mean still loves, he just can't see it yet.

BTW Mr Fantastic, forget him, that's a product of too few sexual partners. I think you can have too few - not in a way that promiscuity is good. BUt you are lucky, two shots and you got the bullseye. Okay times are not great but this could have happened with man no 20!

Not being so lucky, I had to be 'a little' more promiscuous (ahem - okay I did a 4 year degree and then lived in a young professionals house for 4 years!). Zero of those relationships come anywhere close to my W (not WW). Sex is mechanical even for a man without true love. And love is not love, without love.

MR Fantasic farts, picks his toenails in bed, eats like a slob after too many beers etc. Perhaps he smells of BO at times.

Trust me, no man, or woman is Mr or Miss Fantastic. It's the nature of one of your first loves, they are hard to forget. But they are definitely not fantastic, if he was, where is he? I can't hear the sounds of hooves charging over the plains, his white charger etc. Nah. It's just that romantic ideal we all sadly lust after I am afraid - IMHO. We all do it. My first love too....but trust me, nothing compares. I had to test out my theory of course (prior to being married I hasten to add!). So I speak with a relative abundance of knowledge.

Surfer.