Jack, I'm just chatting, these are not my hard and fast beliefs. I don't want to give into negativity and cynicism, and I would like to eventually get to a point where I enter into any new relationship with an open heart. That's how I am naturally. I'm just trying to reconcile my natural inclination with this ... experience I'm going through and what it has to teach me.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16