Cherry. H is filing and leaving. Working on me

[Cherry]

Surfer. Words can't thank you enough. I think today is one of the hardest I've dealt with. I actually told my parents that wh is filing for divorce. They had no idea, I've hid it from them for the pure shame, and also I think denial. I also believe he is to move out in 3 weeks time. Maybe this will make things easier. Idk.

You are absolutely right between differentiating between the two. The wh and my h. Wh definitely deserves a hand out and a firm nah-ah. I'd like to think that I didn't give him any of my spew or anger today. I listened, I did say some things of how I felt, but I did not spew or point a finger or lash out in anger. I thanked him for his (partial) honesty. I don't really plan on having any further interactions with him particularly in the near future, today I am not prepared to see him. I am somewhat weepy and emotional, I'd sooner he doesn't see that side of me. He has no right to see any vulnerable side of me right now. It's not his problem or concern.