Why are you potentially punishing someone who dosen't deserve your mistrust because of the mistrust you have for your wife?
Does this mean when you are walking down the street and see a woman she automatically is placed at the same level of trust as your wife?
I mean the reality is each person is given a certain ammount of trust when you first meet them, we all do this and that trust either grows or withers based on further interaction with that person.
Your worrying about a future that doesn't even exist.
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