Agree with it being better not seeing them. The night before and the day after family evening is always tough for me too.

Your doing good Cheesy. It sounds like she is starting to second guess who she thinks you are and what she expects you to do...

Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')