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Ouch. I do that. Wish I could say I don't, but I do.




I would guess that most LD'ers do that to some extent. Already my H is using Saturday as his "benchmark date" for whenever I say anything the slightest bit negative. Today I was paying bills and he was shocked at how high the Amex bill was, and I (totally non-snotty) said, "Remember those car parts you bought on eBay last month?" and he immediately said how I didn't have any right to complain about car parts because I had gotten what I wanted on Saturday.

You know, he used to accuse me of jotting down the dates we had sex so that I could use them against him (which I never did!), but I think he is the one doing the jotting.