wow, I was busy for a few days, and a lot of nice posts!

Contact is sporadic, and it is as if he needs to know that we are all there. I haven't heard anything for a month, but he pops out periodically. He is married to someone else, and I often wonder why he needs to stay in contact, but it seems he does . . . . My life isn't remotely what I thought it would be, or even what I thought I wanted, but I have met some great people and have some very good times. We do the work for ourselves and our children.

We are survivors that is for sure!