Altair, I am so sorry it seems that your H is pulling away again. I gain I remember the last time you spoke he was going to have a session with his therapist and find out if he should continue to see you (!) has that happened?

I am finding that I am focusing too much on when I will hear or see H the next time. SH is right I feel paralysed in time.

Have you had anymore sessions with the DB coach?


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')