“I hope you’re not wearing that chemise & gown set I bought you years ago for OM!?” I would hope you’d show me & our marriage more respect than that.”
...feel this is one of those things I just vent here but should not utter to W ever.
I'd agree best not to say that. Sort of what you really want to say, "Your lady parts I enjoyed so much, best not use those with the OM." Ultimately though...its anything to do with the OM. Hey that salt shaker we got in Mexico? He better not be using that on his eggs...that's just disrespectful.
If she is with the OM, she is with the OM and nothing you can say or do will change that.
Being blunt here a little.
Having an OM or OW is totally disrespectful fixating on an item of clothing or object...or....even kids which happens as a reason to flip your lid about the level of disrespect, is sort of like an excuse.
I could handle it, but then she wore that baseball cap I got here about 3 years ago to a baseball game with the OM and...that was the last straw.
See what I mean?
She is going to have an OM, she will have a PA, it is disrespectful. This is a symptom of the MLC. Her not wanting to be married is disrespectful.
Pretty much everything they do while in MLC is disrespectful.
If you want to be married to her, you will have to ignore these things, and work on figuring out if forgiveness of all these things is something you can achieve.
PS - HalftheMan?
I get it, its a bad place and your depressed. A lot of people pick sad sad names to reflect how they are feeling.
HTM...
I'm calling you Hero Time Man or Hero for short.
Be the person you WANT to be start now; Hero.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
