It is wonderful to see you so happy. And because you are so happy, the last thing I want to do it pee all over your parade.
HOWEVER, just want to give you a heads up, k?
Be very careful in the next few days to hang on to your happiness because you like feeling happy, not because of anything your wife may say or do. As a happy HDer, you are going to want to continue the feeling of closeness, yes?
Well, as an LDer, your wife may need some 'space' now. She may start picking at you, she may emotionally shut you out, she may get stressed or overwhelmed, get b!tchy... whatever.
If you can keep the presence of mind NOT to take her actions personally, but to understand that she is just unconsciously living in her LDhood, your happiness will stay alive and well.
Keep the PMA. Even though she may try to sabatoge it, she will also be attracted to it in spite of herself.
