Divorce. Thanks Obama

[cbtdad]

Qt,
The pain is absolutely real. It stinks so bad.
Before I came here my first time around my W had already moved out and put the house up for sale.
As matter of fact she filed the same day she told me she wanted a divorce.
She said there was zero chance of reconciliation, etc, etc
It was a couple months later that I found this site.
What I learned is that DBing is very much about you. It's about being the best you possible. When you do that you may have a chance to save your marriage. I said, "may"
Sometimes that's ship has sailed and there is nothing you can do about it
But I promise you if you follow the things that MWD outlines in DR you will become a better person.
Maybe it won't save your current marriage, but it will make you a better person for future relationship.
I realize these are things you might not want to here right now, but change doesn't always mean for the worse.
Sorry you are having to go through this. It's a long journey, but you can be rewarded