Mombear,

How are you today?

I agree with ForGump.

Two months, (although I know you have been dealing with this longer), really isn't very long at all for this...

It didn't take your H a short time to get to where he is and it's going to take him however long it takes for him to figure his stuff out.

Unless you want a divorce, I wouldn't push him to make his decisions quickly.

I also agree that your H is dealing with things that are bigger than your marriage.

Please keep posting. Venting, journaling. It will help you make sense of something that makes no sense.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox