Hey Jen - Even if you don't think your H will read it, you should still read it. The book is divided into sections for the low-desire and high-desire spouse to read. Of course, it helps to read the whole thing no matter where your own desire level is, as it can help you look at things from your H's perspective. Even though my own H is avoiding reading the book I have found it very helpful to read it by myself. Then, maybe if you get a lot out of it, you could even mail it to him with a note: "I just finished reading this and it gave me a lot of help. I thought you might want to read it, too."
