Q...

It is hard.

You have to feel it though.

Listen to the others, it does get better.

I too said much of what you are saying about the vows and whatnot.

The problem with the anger, if you hold onto it, you become bitter.

And bitter is not good for anyone in this situation.

It takes time. You will get there.

Your kids are watching. They need to see an example of how to survive and thrive through adversity. That is how they will learn to overcome the adversities that they will face as they grow.

If it wasn't this...it would be something.

It does get better.


Last edited by Cadet; 09/07/16 07:40 AM. Reason: Start a new thread message


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox