I love you, but I'm not in love with you.

[ROE]

Duvae, I'm sorry you are here. This is not the place I expected to find myself a year ago but here we are. I can't offer you much advice as I am also new to this site and I'm seeking advice for myself. I know it appears that you are alone, but you are not. My W also has said some of the things you mentioned. We are living under the same roof, for now. All intimacy has ended, by her demands. She has a best friend as the OM. Ironically as their friendship grew out marriage dissolved. We are emotionally, spiritually and for all purposes physically divorced now. We are not legally divorced yet but this will also happen soon. I choose to salvage our marriage. W chooses to end our marriage and destroy any hopes or possibilities of ever reconciling. This is devastating to everyone involved.
I will try to keep a watch on your situation as I think there are things that I will read and see to help with my own situation. Take care of yourself.

ROE