Originally Posted By: qt4x11

I should have took her seriously when she tried to tell me she was unhappy - but when I'm standing there saying 'let's work on this' - she should at least try, if not us then for the kids.


I know that you are venting...

However....if they would have known the Iceberg was there...the Titanic wouldn't have sank...

You can't woulda, shoulda, coulda right now...

It does you a huge dis-service...

From this day forward...



Originally Posted By: qt4x11

What about the f*** vows. They were for forever. They were for when things get rough, so we'd have to work things out instead of blowing up the family when someone 'feels dissatisfied' or 'wants to find themselves' whatever that means. I guess when we stood up and took those vows it was just a f*** joke to her.



I doubt that they were a joke to her...

She gave then, what she was capable of giving...

Same as now...

She is giving what she is capable of giving...

You will find compassion and empathy...

Work toward that.

Find some beauty in the day....