I mean, it's a process to get to ... what. A point where I'm not going out of my mind with sadness. Ok. God the pain is so great.
I guess this is point where I allow myself to feel the grief. Today is literally the day where two kids lives are changed forever.
QT, words seem so inadequate in the face of your pain.
Feel the grief today, but trust those who have been down this road before and who tell you that there is goodness waiting for you. Something much more than the absence of pain.
You are still your kids' father, and they need you! Your attitude can greatly affect how well they come through this.
You've got this.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16