Woo-hoo Tim and Mrs. Tim! Ya know, when you said last night she had gone to take a shower I was thinking to myself, "Isn't that her sex signal?" But I (like you) figured after all that painting she couldn't possibly be in the mood. Anyway, words of advice:

1) SHOWER her with her LL today (and for a few more days). Send flowers, write a love letter, or whatever else will really make her feel appreciated. In the SSM book it talks about celebrating when things ARE good. So really let her know just how special last night was for you - in HER own language. (I have, for example, been giving H lots and lots of backrubs since our interlude on Saturday a.m. - which he loves.)

2) NEVER talk about your sex life with Santa!